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Cake day: June 26th, 2023

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  • Man, that sounds so awesome. I’m so jealous of this memory of yours.

    I miss the adventures of being a kid. My group did things differently, but we still had fun. We’d play distraction with the clerk at the gas station and steal 40s to take to an abandoned strip mine and drink. We had a spot where we made chairs from stones and we could hide there all day and just be ourselves. We also had a small cave about 7 ft deep behind a waterfall where we’d hide to party. We had a derailed coal train cart that dammed up a spot in the creek. We could sit up on the side of it and fish or we could go down to the island that formed inside of it and hang out with our girlfriends.

    One time a buddy and I were competing for a girl’s attention and he jumped from the train cart into the mud below on the back side. He hit a bucket in the mud and required stitches from his ankle to his knee. “I’m sorry angryseal, I like you, but he really hurt himself for me.” She was his girlfriend that summer. :p I made that girl mixtape after mixtape and became a master of Mortal Kombat so she’d love me. Learned guitar and wrote my first song to impress her.

    I loved my life, but I’d love to have stayed with a cousin one weekend in some alternate past of mine and sneaked into that school with you guys haha.


  • I can’t speak for other people, but if lemmy.world were to shut down today I’d just pick another server.

    I will admit, it was confusing and almost turned me off at first. I was very upset about the whole deal with third party apps on Reddit. My daughter gave me the whole email analogy and it cleared my hesitation to join Lemmy.

    I don’t know how it is today, but I had to apply to join world when I first got on. It would be awesome if an app would sign a person up for, say, three different servers and sync settings between them. Something goes down, wouldn’t even notice.

    Assholes ruin everything though and making it easier for bot accounts to exist would end badly.

    I don’t know.

    When I first got on here it was a mess. It didn’t work half the time and when it did no content was being generated. I stuck it out though and I’m glad I did.

    I’m definitely not the right person to come up with any solutions.


  • Man. You just gave me an idea (which would matter if I wasn’t a complete idiot).

    Instead of servers that all attempt to be a sort of clone of Reddit, servers could focus on content similar to the way subreddits work.

    So you’d join any one of these servers and federate with other servers just like now, only content would be focused between servers.

    Example:

    This server is a games server. It has /c/games, /c/fallout, /c/vintagegaming, etc.

    This server will focus on news and politics. It has /c/worldnews, /c/marketnews, etc.

    Sure, it would still have the issue of being fractured, but it would narrow it down so much that it would be more appealing and easier to navigate.

    It’s probably too late for that.

    Ultimately, I’m happy with the fediverse. Algorithms aren’t dictating what I see. There’s no profit incentive that will lead to bad decisions, so when bad decisions are made, folks will talk about it and come to a solution.

    I miss old Reddit, but it’s gone.






  • Sounds like you and me grew up in very similar environments. I was all over the place until I got my first computer with internet, I didn’t leave my room much after that.

    The gangsters I grew up around were dumb white hillbillies with guns.

    What the other commenter said about survivor bias is true though. Nearly everyone I grew up with is dead now but me and my brother. The only real difference I can think of is that my mom came looking for us if we were gone too long. If we didn’t get back when we said, my mom was on a warpath stopping at every place we frequented and screaming bloody murder. We were only brave enough to hide from her when we were drunk or high and we knew the consequences for that would be a lot bigger than hanging out somewhere later than we were supposed to.

    That woman had such bad anxiety, I don’t know how she survived us kids. I really don’t.

    We survived because she protected us though.

    One night my brother and I snuck off to a party in the next town over. My mom showed up and dragged us both away and beat the hell out of us. A few hours after she did, some rival hooligans fired shots at the boys from our neighborhood, killed one of them and wounded another.

    I might be alive to make this comment because my mom came looking for us that night. Christmas Eve, 2000.






  • This right here. Listen up.

    My boss needed my work. He got me when I was 16 years old and told me that in 10 years he intended to retire and if I came and worked for him he’d lease one of the businesses to me until he died and I’d take over.

    At the 11 year mark I was losing hope, but I kept going because it really did seem like a possibility.

    I loved my job, but I got paid so much less than everyone else who did what I did. I thought it was a decent trade off because I really did love it so much.

    My store was sold in August after 24-26 years there. I have been unemployed and staying at home with my kids. My skills are out of date, my resume a single paragraph.

    Don’t. Be. Loyal.

    Sell your skills to the highest bidder and develop them as you go. I loved everyone I worked with, but I left when the place was sold. I left for the reason I mentioned above. I took care of it like it was my own personal space because it was supposed to be. Your friends will not hate you for improving your life or they aren’t your friends.

    I made the people who worked under me do no extra, because in my mind they didn’t stand to benefit from it like I did. Now they’re dealing with all of it and they still talk to me.