androogee (they/she)

I keep messaging the devs but no response.

Me either

Oh damn if you’d rather be ignored, that’s super easy to accomplish

Everybody is posting their favorite Hyper Specific Deep Dive Videos, so here’s mine:

https://youtu.be/kpk2tdsPh0A

Things that are common among rape survivors as coping mechanisms:

-Dark humor about rape
-Fantasizing about sex that looks like rape as a way to reestablish a feeling of control

These are not universal experiences - everyone processes differently - but they are common. Feeling shame about them is also common, or being told that they invalidate victimhood.

I believe you’re trying to help, so I’m not mad at you. But you aren’t helping.

If you pay the same amount each month for your mortgage for 25 years and inflation is 2% each year the last payment should be half as valuable as the first (edit: about two thirds, actually. Maths!), so you’re encouraged to buy on credit.

But this is only meaningful if your income is also going up, right? Otherwise you’re still getting fucked by inflation. You’re paying the same percentage of your income towards that mortgage but all your other expenses are going up.

I read two posts in the morning

I read two posts at night

I read two posts in the afternoon

It makes me feel alright

Nah I read the official documentation they’re definitely sublemmies